I have had the honor and privilege of knowing my mother-in-law (my second mother), Alice, for more than half my life. She was kind to me from the moment we met and she welcomed me into her family with loving open arms. She was always so caring and encouraging, with a huge heart full of love and a zest for life. Family was everything to Alice and as our matriarch, she ensured that we all stayed close and connected. She always wanted to know every detail of our lives in a way that I can only fully appreciate now that she’s gone. Whenever there is news to share, I think of calling her only to remember that she is no longer around. Weeks after her passing, I still find myself in tears as I feel this void that’s been left by her absence. I think about her beautiful voice, her laughter and her love for nature and it warms my sorrowful heart. I would give anything to have her back in our lives. There are so many places we had planned to visit, so many things we wanted to do together. Alice filled our lives with such joy. We never doubted her love. She was there for us through good times and bad, always staying strong and positive. I keep thinking about how amazing she was—how she never uttered a bad word against anyone, always choosing instead to see the good in people. Everyone who had the pleasure of meeting Alice instantly loved her. She had this energy about her that made you feel good. I know without a doubt that Alice changed my life for the better and changed me for the better, too. Everything I know about love I learned from watching her with her husband, Augie, another beautiful soul whom I am so fortunate to have in our lives. It’s hard seeing him mourning her loss. They were always together, holding hands as they walked, laughing together and enjoying life to the fullest.
Alice, you will forever be in my heart and I will honor your sweet spirit by living by the example you set. I will find a way to brush away the tears and focus on all of the cherished memories you have given us. I know that you are somehow still with us even if we can no longer see and hear you. I feel your presence often and I will never, ever forget you. Thank you for everything you have done for us. I have never taken you or your love and guidance for granted. I hope you always felt my love, gratitude and respect. ❤️🙏🏼
